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my boyfriend got hard over po*rn.. help plsss?
Asked by emmaloubabes92
i suggested to my bf last nite we watch po*n 2gether, i wanted 2 c if he would. he said ok n put on lesb*an po*n on the pc... he got hard over it, and i didnt like tht he got hard from it... am i over reactin or should he only get hard over me?
yeah but he typed in a specific girls name on the search thing! shouldnt that bother me?
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Honestly, what did you expect to happen?
Men can get hard just from the vibrations sitting on the bus. They don't even need to be thinking about anything. Your bf probably gets ten or more erections a day, more if he is in his teens.
You are definitely over-reacting. If you put naked women in front of your man, he will get an erection. If you don't like it, don't put him in that position.
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You're over reacting..
Answered by Jen
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heh??????? i would be more worried if he didnt get hard over watchin women lol
Answered by Honest Guy (Eire)
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What did you imagine the purpose of porn was, exactly?
Answered by captain_cheesedick
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You're over reacting. A guy will get aroused by any good looking naked woman. What did you think would happen? You're watching porn. That's the whole point.
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Yes, a lot of women get bothered by this. It makes them think that their lover is cheating on them in some way or you feel like you're not good enough and that you have to be like those women on the porno.
You need to mentally work past this. Most guys like porn and they won't change so don't even try. If you do they'll just hide it or back away from you. Don't make a big deal over it either as you will probably get a bad reaction.
For a guy its not cheating on you. They still like you just as much and it has nothing to do with your sexual abilities or looks. Some men need to masturbate. It helps them relax and its fun. For these men, if they don't, they'll probably bug you to death for sex every 5 mins. Men have to release that tension and porn helps us do that. Its just a visual aid and nothing more. We do not want a relationship with the girls on the porn, or cheat or anything else. We want our girlfriends. Porn just helps us release ourselves or help excite us even more to enhance the experience with our girlfriend.
Men get very visually stimulated. Much more so than women. Men go for looks and women go for a man that can provide and care. These priorities are biologically written in to us. Of course women like looks too but most women will choose a man that can provide and care for them and their family in priority to looks. As where most men will choose a young healthy looking woman over a women that can provide and care.
These things were or still are necessary for reproduction. A man is programmed to mate with as many females as he can to spread his genes by reproduction, where as a women needs a caring providing man to hold on to. For her he has to have the qualities to be able to take care of, feed and protect the child and her to ensure the survival of their offspring.
Answered by Bob G
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Lesbian porn turns most men on if you want the truth. Two women are better than one when it comes to watching.
Answered by Tango
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You are overreacting, it was a natural reaction and it WAS your idea afterall. You're an idiot.
Answered by charleneq86
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Gawd strewth - grow up! You show him porn, he gets hard - totally fffing normal.
Answered by Sal*UK
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If you think he will only ever get an erection over you, then you must be living on another planet. Don't watch porn with him and then you won't be disappointed.
Answered by Buddha
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That is quite normal im sure you get excited over seeing porn if you had a penis you would to trust me
Answered by The One
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Of course it will make him hard, he his only a human being after all. It would make most men get a hard on watching something like that.
Answered by richard_beckham2001
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I would be more concerned if he didn't get hard... It just shows he is attracted to women, is that a problem for you?
Answered by Yahoo: GRUNT
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show him p**n... what do you expect!!! we men are simple creatures! i wouldnt worry about it, hes with you for a reason :):)
Answered by george face
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You are over reacting!
Answered by j.pee69
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You ask if he wants to watch it, knowing what will most likely happen and then say you don't like it? Hmm. You are over reacting. Don't like it don't ask if he wants to watch it! What do you expect? A lot of men watch things like that...
Edit: If he searched a certain name it just means he has watched it before. No surprise really - he just knows what he likes. If it were some girl he knew and talked to all the time then you'd probably be right to be worried, but it isn't.
Answered by sn0zb0z
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You are so over reacting, He's human. What man woudn't get turned on by naked ladies. (Apart from gay men). Chill out!
Answered by XxJodieRocksxX
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Come on grow up! of course he got a hard on. Sorry girl you will never be the only person or object or anything to stop this happening! It is called life!
Answered by buildypuss
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This is wots gonna happen when a guy watches porn, if it upsets you tell him you didnt like it and dont watch it again coz you will end up fighting over it x
Answered by Peaches
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So, you suggested that you watch porn?
You wanted to know if he would watch it?
He watches it and has a reaction?
You're unhappy?
Explain this to me like I'm a child, cause I'm confused.
If you don't want him to get turned on by porn, DON'T SUGGEST HE WATCHES IT!!
Sorry, but you're overreacting.
Answered by Lynnie
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wow your really over reacting. a lot of couples regularly watch porn together & on there own. it can be very healthy for a relationship as long as they don't get too hooked on it. the live show is always better.
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it should only bother you if he starts to prefer porn to you... then its time to get shot of him
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Answered by deltagremlin
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Yes. You are over reacting. And you need a reality check. I can tell by your question that you are very young. You would never have asked this question if you were in your twenties or older. You will never in your life have a man who is only turned on by you. It just won't happen. That doesn't mean you should ever put up with a man who cheats on you or anything, it just means that it is perfectly normal for ALL men to be turned on by attractive women. It's a fact of life. Get over it.
Answered by bpholla2131
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What did you expect? It was you who even suggested it!!!
Answered by WelshLad
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