I like this guy who happens to be my manager,Should i get involved?Does he seem intrested?
Asked by LadyButterfly
There is a manager/coworker guy whose name is Jeffrey that works for the same company as I whose behavior is starting to be very suspect. Jeffrey is a field manager and who basically what he does is to check on differnt sites and officers out in the field, and makes sure that the site is running smoothly.Well,First off, when we first met, I was working as a security officer at an apartment building, and while I was doing my foot patrol, I get a radio call to come downstairs to the lobby by my co worker Ignacio, I go downstairs and I see Jeffrey,and he jokingly tells me that he was hurt and jealous that I had sent a text message to his friend(Jayson) (whose also a field manager)which I have been told are long time childhood friends, sent a text message to Jayson for overtime. And so Jeffrey so he gives me his business card to call him. And he was very giggly, happy, smiling, grinning, and as he left he smiled and cheesed"I heard so many good things about you" I'll see you soon" and I asked my Ignacio, "Is always that happy" He laughed and said "No, he didnt start doing that until you came up here" You guys were both smiling too much" We met, again he was there doing a post check,I happen to walk into the lobby and jeffrey was there talking to my co worker and when i saw him he just stared in my eyes , and he started talking to my co worker and I noticed that he kept glancing at me.He came back to my site an hour later to pick up some paperwork and his body language was strong, he was squinting his eyes, and leaned into me, and as I was handing him the paperwork, he reaches for it, at the same time I am and touches my arm, and i thought to myself,there is somethng there. So ever since then, I'll hear from other co workers thatJeffrey will ask (my field manager William) what is going on at my site,or he ll ask my co worker How am I doing, and has even called up to my job on three different occasions asking for me. Plus, the other weird thing is that I have had four different officers all tell me that they are working under Jeffreys supervision or at one of his sites, when there are plenty of people out of work and there are three differnt field managers, but yet hes the only one calling anyone that used to work with me. Plus,I know that he goes to my myspace/facebook page and copies me.And I did call him, and we talked for a long time, and he told me that he couldnt believe I liked him, he didnt want to fantasize about that, he would want to do that to himself.And tell me to call him anytime.But when I tried to meet up with him, he changed and said that he had to be realt careful with me because he is my manager, and he has a sexual harrassment case filed against him so he didnt know if I was recording him its crazy, that was the last time I talked to him, and thatw as in febuary

Best Answer:
Stay away from this one. 1. He's a work colleague, he's in a superior position, he's been there longer. If there's any fall out from a relationship with this guy, guess who gets fired? 2. He's way way too indiscreet. Talking about you to so many of your coworkers. 3. Is he married? Just a red flag when you said he gave you his business card. Most single men would be a bit less businesslike about giving a girl their number. 4. A sexual harassment case against him already and he's still flirting with girls at work? Is he mad or just plain stupid? The guy may have the looks but he certainly doesn't sound as though he's got the brains.

Your manager has a sexual harassment suit against him and you are actually considering a relationship with him?? I know you like him but this lawsuit raises a bunch of red flags, like not being able to keep his hands off women which could lead him to cheat on anyone he is seeing. On that note, I suggest you leave it alone and keep your relations with Jeff on a professional level.
Answered by ModelFlyerChick